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Mind questions to know if she is faithful - Shedrach - 05-26-2025

Here are some subtle, respectful "mind questions" you can ask to help you understand your girlfriend’s faithfulness, values, and mindset toward commitment—without sounding accusatory:
 ? Trust & Loyalty Questions
  1. "What does loyalty mean to you in a relationship?"
    Quote:Her answer reveals how she defines faithfulness and if she values it.
  2. "Have you ever been tempted in a relationship? How did you handle it?"
    Quote:A mature response often shows emotional honesty and self-control.
  3. "What’s your opinion on flirting while in a relationship?"
    Quote:Pay attention to how she views boundaries.
  4. "Do you think emotional cheating is as serious as physical cheating?"
    Quote:This shows how deeply she values emotional connection and exclusivity.
  5. "What would you do if someone attractive made a move on you while we were apart?"
    Quote:Her instinctive reaction gives insight into her loyalty reflex.

? Communication & Transparency
  1. "Do you think couples should have each other's passwords or is that too much?"
    Quote:Her view on transparency and boundaries shows her trust comfort level.
  2. "Do you feel comfortable sharing your day or who you hang out with?"
    Quote:If she values openness, she’s more likely to be faithful and transparent.
  3. "Have you ever felt emotionally or physically distant from someone you were dating?"
    Quote:Past patterns can hint at how she might respond during difficult times.
  4. "If we ever feel disconnected, how do you think we should handle it?"
    Quote:Shows her commitment to working through relationship challenges.

❤️ Integrity & Intentions
  1. "What’s something you think destroys a relationship instantly?"
    Quote:If her answer includes dishonesty or cheating, it shows she’s aware and intentional about faithfulness.
  2. "Do you believe a relationship can survive betrayal?"
    Quote:Her answer reveals her beliefs about forgiveness and boundaries.
  3. "Have you ever cheated before? If so, what did you learn from it?"
    Quote:If you feel safe and the relationship is strong, this can be asked carefully and respectfully.

Quote:Important: Asking these questions works best when you build emotional safety first. Stay calm and open. Don’t interrogate — connect. Her willingness to be vulnerable, consistent, and honest over time is more telling than any single answer.