[Shedrach]

Here are some subtle, respectful "mind questions" you can ask to help you understand your girlfriend’s faithfulness, values, and mindset toward commitment—without sounding accusatory:
 ? Trust & Loyalty Questions

1. "What does loyalty mean to you in a relationship?"
   

   Her answer reveals how she defines faithfulness and if she values it.

2. "Have you ever been tempted in a relationship? How did you handle it?"
   

   A mature response often shows emotional honesty and self-control.

3. "What’s your opinion on flirting while in a relationship?"
   

   Pay attention to how she views boundaries.

4. "Do you think emotional cheating is as serious as physical cheating?"
   

   This shows how deeply she values emotional connection and exclusivity.

5. "What would you do if someone attractive made a move on you while we were apart?"
   

   Her instinctive reaction gives insight into her loyalty reflex.

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? Communication & Transparency

1. "Do you think couples should have each other's passwords or is that too much?"
   

   Her view on transparency and boundaries shows her trust comfort level.

2. "Do you feel comfortable sharing your day or who you hang out with?"
   

   If she values openness, she’s more likely to be faithful and transparent.

3. "Have you ever felt emotionally or physically distant from someone you were dating?"
   

   Past patterns can hint at how she might respond during difficult times.

4. "If we ever feel disconnected, how do you think we should handle it?"
   

   Shows her commitment to working through relationship challenges.

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❤️ Integrity & Intentions

1. "What’s something you think destroys a relationship instantly?"
   

   If her answer includes dishonesty or cheating, it shows she’s aware and intentional about faithfulness.

2. "Do you believe a relationship can survive betrayal?"
   

   Her answer reveals her beliefs about forgiveness and boundaries.

3. "Have you ever cheated before? If so, what did you learn from it?"
   

   If you feel safe and the relationship is strong, this can be asked carefully and respectfully.

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? Important: Asking these questions works best when you build emotional safety first. Stay calm and open. Don’t interrogate — connect. Her willingness to be vulnerable, consistent, and honest over time is more telling than any single answer.